WELCOME, LOVE. LET’S DO THE HEART WORK. SHALL WE?
I’m not just here to help you find someone. I’m here to help you become someone who’s ready to build and sustain something sacred.
That’s why I created these worksheets and books. It’s not just about whether you’re ready to date. It’s about whether you’re ready for Kingdom partnership, the kind of love that sharpens you, stretches you, and aligns with God’s timing, not just your own desires.
WHY ARE SOME OF THESE COMPLEMENTARY?
Because I believe some things should be accessible, especially when it comes to healing, preparation, and discernment.
Not all of my resources are free, but the ones that are, I offer because I felt led to. The heartwork before a relationship is some of the most important work you will ever do. Before we can even start talking about matchmaking, consulting, or connections, we have to talk about readiness. You have to be ready to be ready, love.
HERE’S A QUESTION TO REFLECT ON BEFORE YOU GET STARTED
Are you preparing for a Kingdom marriage, or are you preparing for the love you desire? These are two different things, and it is important to understand the difference. Words mean little without action to back them up. For more insight on your response, schedule a Clarity Call with me.
Now, take a deep breath, keep it real, and let’s get into it.
P.S. If at any point you feel like, “Whew, I need more of this,” or you realize you’re ready to go deeper into this season of preparation, just know I’m here to walk with you. You’ll have the chance to connect with me personally.
Cheers, to your season and the lessons learned in it.🥂
#loveyoumeanit💋
Nicole Melissa
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SUPPORT THIS WORK
Many of these workbooks and resources are offered as gifts to help you grow, reflect, and prepare for God’s best in your relationships. Some are freely available, while others are part of deeper, guided experiences.
If these tools have blessed you, you are welcome to contribute any amount to support this work. Your generosity helps continue creating meaningful resources, so more people can be equipped for healing, growth, and Kingdom-centered relationships.
Every donation, big or small, makes a difference.
COMPLEMENTARY SECTION

START WITH A CLARITY CALL
Every journey begins with a first step. The Clarity Call is your opportunity to pause, reflect, and gain direction on what you truly need in this season. During this 45-minute session, you’ll receive:
A safe, faith-centered space to share where you are right now
Insight into the patterns or challenges holding you back
Practical next steps for healing, growth, or preparation for Kingdom marriage
Clarity on how consulting with me can support you moving forward
Do not stay stuck in uncertainty. Take the first step today.
Download it free today and start your journey of reflection.
Marriage is a covenant that requires commitment, self-awareness, and a willingness to grow. The Marriage Mirror is a powerful self-assessment tool designed to help you pause and reflect on your own heart before stepping into or while preparing for Kingdom marriage.
Through thoughtful prompts and guided questions, you’ll gain clarity about your values, patterns, strengths, and areas that may need healing. This resource empowers you to look inward first because a healthy marriage begins with a whole and prepared you.